Threesome, it’s many man’s dreams. Him, between two women getting nasty things done to him and watching them getting down and dirty with one another. Sounds great and all but do threesome really turn out like the ones we see on movies or watching those porn videos online.
Personally, many bi/bi-curious single/couple have never participated in such activities but they have been asked. It made me wonder how do you even go about having a threesome. Shouldn’t there be some kind of understanding or rules to follow before going all the way out? So we’d better decided to see what’s the best way to go about a threesome and you can decide if you agree or disagree.
The First thing on the list is obviously finding a third person. A female of course because let’s be honest what man is going to want to be in bed with a man, especially a man he’ll be watching all over his woman. He’d have a fit, which is why you better be sure your girl is completely sure she’s down for the get down because let me just say it.On a serious note make sure this is something your partner really wants aka this has been a fantasy of hers as well before going out to look for a third person.
The third person should be a stranger – AGREED: Having a threesome with someone you both know or one of you know can be a major issue in the future even if the two of you agreed it was okay. It’s a possibility that your girl will feel like you are now into her friend and become jealous and/or the friend will catch feelings. I think it’s best the two of you go out together and decide on someone you both find attractive and you can decide if the three of you have chemistry. Also, you don’t have to worry about seeing this person again unless you decided you’d like to have another one. I’m sure you won’t find someone the first go round but it’s possible.
The third should go get tested – AGREED: Just because you and your partner know each other’s status doesn’t mean you shouldn’t ask the third persons before actually executing the plan. It’s best you use condoms ANYWAY
Second I’m pretty sure you want to decide what is and what’s not off-limits.
Threesome should take place where you are comfortable (i.e. at home) – DISAGREE: Take the party to some place exciting but do not bring this third-party into the place you lay your head at night. Go to a hotel or some other place exciting. Where that place is for the three of you to decide
Decide what sexual gestures you are okay with – AGREED: Do not expect your woman to go down on another female if she’s never done it before. It may be something that is extremely uncomfortable for her. Now if it happens on it’s on after she decided it was something she didn’t want to do then there you go; your fantasy has come true because that’s what you wanted. Also, the man kissing on the third-party I say should be off-limits. Kissing is way more intimate than having sex with someone.
Do not use the same condom for both women– AGREED: that’s just gross as fuck dude
Finish with your partner – AGREED: if mine man finished his business with the third there would be hell to pay once she left and I bet my life I’d never let him have another threesome ever again in life. You want your woman to feel like she’s, special and all you want at the end of this.
Once the threesome is over don’t hang around talking to the third-party. Send that bitch packing in the friendliest way possible lol. Tell her to thank you and see her to the door, the both of you. Spend some time with your partner and reassure each other how important you are to each other. Hey go ahead and take a shower together it might lead to you two getting to enjoy each other a little more. Hopefully, at the end of it all, you feel closer than ever and no one decided they want to call it quits.
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